This guide shows how self-esteem affects the quality of one\'s relationships. Relate counsellor Julia Cole suggests that low self-esteem -no matter whether due to one\'s character, upbringing or adult experiences - is one of the main reasons that people fail to have satisfying relationships. This book shows what makes people choose a particular partner, and includes advice on how to:-manage a difficult relationship where one partner withdraws or suffers from depression or aggression-identify what is a healthy relationship-build strong \'couple esteem\' for a healthy, long-lasting relationship-and improve sex through exercises and advice